Mig, Mango and Fred.

This was taken down from the other sub so I figured I’d post here with an update:

My (27F) fiancé (29M) proposed to me a few weeks ago. It caught me completely by surprise, but we’ve been together for 3 years and things have been going great. So I was really excited and said yes!

I really liked the ring when I first saw it and my friends and family all think it is stunning. It’s an oval cut with “diamonds” across the band. I asked where he got it and he wouldn’t tell me where, but that he got a great deal on it. I didn’t think anything of it until yesterday we were in bed and I was asked him if it was diamond or moissanite mainly out of curiosity. I don’t have a preference btw. He said he didn’t know and would have to look it up. When I glanced over at his phone, he was in the Temu app. I asked him if he got it from there and he didn’t respond. So I asked again and he responded with something like “does it matter?” and left the room and ended up sleeping on the couch.

I spent all night so confused. Today decided to download the app and look up my ring and I found one that looks identical. I found the exact ring and it listed at $38. I am mad. He makes good money (200K/yr) and I feel like he could’ve shelled out some money for a ring better than one on Temu. AITA for telling him I don’t want it?

Update: After reading responses from my first post on the AITA subreddit (it got taken down) I was freaking out a bit. He came home while I was FaceTiming a friend about this. I hung up with her and then talked to him for an hour or so. He apologized for sleeping on the couch and that he needed time to think. He doesn’t see eye to eye with me on my concerns about the ring and says he did research and that it was highly rated. He says if the ring breaks he will replace it (but didn’t say it’d be higher quality). I have people messaging me that the ring could be harmful to my health and that Temu has horrible standards for their jewelry and labor issues so now I really don’t want to wear it. He left and went to his brother’s house. Usually I’d go with him but things are just tense. AITA for telling him I still don’t want it?

First we had that squad of nazis pointing guns at black people in traffic, then right wing media hijacking local old wives tales to fearmonger, now there was suspicious package with a neo nazi note at one of the homes on my very route home from work, AND AS OF AN HOUR AGO CITY HALL WAS EVACUATED AFTER A THREAT

This city used to be quiet. We were never crime free, but terrorism wasn’t an everyday fucking occurrence. People want to blame Haitians for everything wrong with Springfield but it’s the fascist shit stains scaring the shit out of people like my partner, a poc, making them afraid to even look at the gd news.

I don’t want to live here anymore. It’s where I work, it’s where I grew up, I met the love of my life here. I can’t in good conscience keep my family here if its going turn in to the troubles in ireland.